What is Connection in Relationships

We hear this often: “She says I’m not connecting to her. What is she talking about?” She says, “He is
simply not there for me. He doesn’t know me, and I don’t know him for that matter. We just pass by
each other most days, getting on with our busy lives.”

What are they missing? CONNECTION… REAL CONNECTION! What is it anyway?

It is defined as unity or unified oneness of purpose and destiny. It is harmony, being in sync, being known, vulnerable and open, common interest and goals, partnership, alignment, attunement, being spiritually and emotionally present sharing each other’s internal world; the highs, lows and in-betweens in a safe secure sacred environment.

Safe means when we share, we don’t judge or try to fix.

Secure means we listen with empathy and caring, and we do NOT use any vulnerability against each other.

Sacred means the info we share stays between us, and we respect each other’s feelings and emotions, and if something touches you, I try to understand and be present for you even if it doesn’t hit me the same way.

What are some practical ways to get a connection in relationships?

Stay tuned for the next Soul Healing Love Blog.